There are three easy steps to join. Membership is free for a limited time only and it includes a background check and three months of membership. (We do not conduct a credit check). A member can request cancellation of their subscription for any reason by sending an email to support@validatedating.com

Step 1- Sign up (Basic information of what you are seeking, username, password, email, agree to terms and conditions)

Step 2 – Complete your Authorization, Release & Hold Harmless Agreement.

Step 3 – Confirm your email (This will allow you to log back into the system. If you do not confirm your email, the system will not recognize your login information)

Once you are approved & ValiDATED you will receive an email (approx. 1-3 business days). Log into your dashboard, complete your profile questionnaire & upload picture(s).

(Optional photo privacy feature available).

You must be approved and complete your profile in order to be included in the search for other members to find you.

The following acts will prevent you from being ValiDATED. All of our ValiDATED members have met these criteria.

• One violent felony arrest or any two non-violent felony arrests.
• Two or more DUI’s
• Any violent misdemeanor conviction or any two non-violent misdemeanor convictions.
• Misrepresenting your marital status. You may be legally separated if it is noted on your profile under “Relationship Status”. We may ask for proof of legal separation.
• Using fake, old or altered photos that are not representative of what you look like now.
• Arrests of any kind for fraud, domestic violence, child abuse or sexual battery.
• Misrepresenting your age.
• Being associated with child abuse or child pornography web activity.

We have certified that your date is who they say they are and that he or she meets our stringent criteria for ValiDATION.

At this time and for a limited time only, we are offering a FREE membership that includes Background Check ValiDATION plus three months of subscription. Our regular rates are:

• Three month membership, including initial ValiDATE verification $ 89
• Six month membership, including initial ValiDATE verification $119
• One year membership, including two ValiDATE verifications, initial and six month* $149 (Best value)
• One month of membership, including ValiDATE verification $ 79
• Monthly membership fee following initial sign up period $ 19

*ValiDATE verifications are required every 6 months.

There are no automatic renewals. Member must initiate each renewal.

No, the fee is for completing the background check, regardless of the results. Our criteria are very well spelled out. You know your background and you know if you would meet our criteria or not.

No. In order to insure the safety and peace of mind of our ValiDATED members, you must pass the background check with no exceptions.

Just tell us up front. It must be noted in your profile. If you represent yourself as single and we determine that you are married, we will terminate your membership.

In order to give all members the greatest level of security, we suggest completing a new background check every three months. However, a new background check is required every six months.

No, we are just people who have the ability to listen and have developed a service that REAL people need.

• We do not require pictures, because some people wish to maintain a level of privacy. Rest assured that these members have been screened and verified by the same process used to verify all members.
• The video chat feature was created so that people could see each other and interact prior to their first meeting. It has become a valuable tool for our members.

• No nude or partially nude photos will be allowed.
• No photos that include minor children will be allowed as public photos.
• Your main profile picture must clearly show your face.
• Any picture deemed to be fake, inaccurate or that violates our policy will be removed without notice by our moderators.
• You must upload a picture for ValiDATE Dating internal background check process, but you then have an option to make it private for your public profile.
• Excessive violations of this policy will result in removal of your profile from the site.